Self-Love, For Real!
What is self- love? Like how do you know if you have it, for real?
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For me, it’s when I can look at my own self-created victimhood and call myself on it. It’s when I can say without judgment “this emotion you’re feeling is OK, observe it and see what it is guiding you to. Don’t try to fix, change or box it.” Real self- love means I allow space for all of me to be seen, even the insecure and messy side that still yearns for desires and control.
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It’s also knowing that “no thank you” is a complete answer when someone asks me for something that doesn’t feel congruent. It’s allowing myself to really feel connected to my needs and not try to be all things to all people.
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Real self-love frees me to shine bright even if I don’t always feel whole. And it allows me to love your light, even when you’re not able to see your own magnificence. There is no need for comparison when I’m living in my heart.
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Real self-love can sometimes look like dangerous freedom...because it’s raw, uncut and full of surrender. And when I lean into that even more, it turns into the sweetest embrace.
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And while this radical self-love sometimes feels like a rebellious act, I’m crystal clear that I’m all into living it/being it as often as I can. When I’m wrestling with my mind, if I just go back into my heart, all I need is already there. Empowered. Free. Alive. ❤️
Joyous surrender to all that is and all that will be.
This is the place I love to mentor clients to see in themselves. Just yesterday I had a client say to me "thank you for giving me permission to be myself. I've never felt like I understood myself until our work together. I know now that I am a multi-dimensional woman that has so much to love about myself - including all of those parts I never wanted to acknowledge before. There is no need for me to be perfect."
SWOON! THIS IS WHY WE ARE ALIVE.
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I have a few openings for one-to-one work! I offer a complimentary (30 minute) strategy session that allows us to get to know each other - and allows you to ask me any questions you have. I would LOVE it!